"Being Examples To The Flock"

"Tend (nurture, guard, guide, and fold) the flock of God that is [your responsibility], not by coercion or constraint, but willingly; not dishonorably motivated by the advantages and profits [belonging to the office], but eagerly and cheerfully; not domineering [ as arrogant, dictatorial, and overbearing persons] over those in your charge, but being examples (patterns and models of Christian living) to the flock. And then when the Chief Shepherd is revealed, you will win the conqueror's crown of glory."

1 Peter 5:2-4

I'm well aware these words were written for pastors, elders and leaders in the church and yet how apt this is to us as parents. We have little ones watching our every move. They love what we love. They mimic our patterns and repeat our words. They are our disciples; eating with us, going everywhere with us, learning from us. 

As mothers it is natural to nurture our babies yet as we come face to face with their sin nature it becomes easy to become exasperated with them, quick to speak and slow to listen, quick to react instead of train and reach the heart. It's easy for me to be overbearing and domineering. I like everything to be in order and just right but I hinder God's work when I work on my terms. 

I also have to keep my motivations in check. Oh, it's easy to want my kids to behave so that I get a "well done" applause from the world around me. It's easy for me to react for the wrong reason but absolutely wrong before the Lord. 

My goal and aim must always be to please my Lord and Savior. My motivation must be eternity, His plan for my children, reaching their precious hearts for Him. As I live my life in humility and live my life as an example  that pleases the Father what blessings will flow on both sides of eternity.